First, remeber buddy that this is YOUR life so YOU need to make the choices that YOU can live with. Having said this, here is MO...
1) Sit tight until December and see how retro goes. From what I hear it is very good.
2) While sitting tight, figure out WHY you are so scared that she may leave. Fear has control over what YOU let it have control over.
3) Go read the DR books
4) GAL and act like everything is fine. Do not push her at all
5) Pour yourself a large glass of shut the f*ck up (aka STFU) and stop bring up the OM.
Keep defending him and YOU continue to push her towards him.
Ok?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans