thanks for the support CR and JTB. I appreciate it. I have thought about it for a day and I have told my W that i need to digest our current situation. She has the kids this weekend, and she says she is taking them to her friends and she will not be taking them to OM house anymore. We shall see. The kids are all in agreement that OM is a BIG NO for them.
Before I get yelled at, we discussed it with the FC and if the kids want to accept the OM they can and their feelings will be validated. But the overall goal for the kids and me would be to get mom home, so we are united, that even if they like OM, Mom coming home is more important.
So I am taking the weekend kid free to go away to my Home Town and hang with my friends and family to recharge. I will think about her proposal for the weekend and let her know on Monday.
I think your plan to figure it out over the weekend is a great one. Take the time.
Recommend, not involving friends and family, figure it out for you. Friends and family have a desire not to see us hurt, so the advice is geared toward getting the hurt over quickly, because they think it is what they would do...but willing to bet alot of them would end up here too.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
JTB, I have no intentions of even bringing my current situation into any conversation this weekend. My family and friends all know as we are very close but i have already made certain everyone knows no talking about it. I am going away for me, to have fun, get my drink on with good friends and just cut loose. I need it. I need to go clubing and just have a good weekend and get my mind of of my M if not for just a few hours!
