I realized that my posts are biased and paint me as the victim of a sick person when that is not entirely truth.
Pretty normal for the LBS to do this buddy.
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We are both victims of each other
Okay question for YOU....pick a door below:
Door # 1 - live your life as a victim, constantly beating yourself up for you PAST mistakes OR
Door # 2 - Accept your past mistake and CHANGE YOUR FUTURE!
Which, door would you pick?
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She does not take responsibility for her decisions and frankly until recently, neither have I
Can you control what she takes responsibility for?
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In talking to her, I realized how much I have to change for myself, for my children for her, and for the marriage to work.
Change for YOU - and you will never regret this NOR will you fail. Change for someone else and you will always be trying to [b]make{/b] someone see or feel something that YOU cannot control.
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I realized how stubborn I have been and how reluctant to look at my self first
And now that you know this what are you going to do about it.
Honestly, ya did what you knew how to do - ya know better know, so just do better.
DB 101 - change YOU!
Dude, make this about you!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
