Don’t feel this way – PERIOD. Last year was the first Turkey Day I had without my kids in 18 years! Guess what…I made and we all survived. You will too. Believe IT!
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He wants me to just drop off the Girls without getting out of the car.
Screw what he wants. You do not have to operate from a place of FEAR. I am not saying be an as* - no but you should not feel like you cannot even get out of the car.
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Hopefully this first one is the worst ad it will be less painfull in future years.
Yes, the first ones are tough. They do get better IF YOU allow them to.
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He wanted the divorce, but I feel like I am the one being punished.
You “Feel” what your believe is YOUR reality. DB101 – Change how you look at th sitch and YOUR feelings will change. Is this easy? No. Can it be done. Absolutely!
Stay busy but also give yourself some time to grieve. Don’t dwell on it all day….but allow yourself to feel the feelings.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
