WAW is ok with divorce

[BrokenInside]

I talked to my wife again yesterday. I realized that my posts are biased and paint me as the victim of a sick person when that is not entirely truth. We are both victims of each other. She does not take responsibility for her decisions and frankly until recently, neither have I. In talking to her, I realized how much I have to change for myself, for my children for her, and for the marriage to work. Reading other threads here, has helped a lot as well. Yes, she is a WAW and does not realize this yet, but I made it very easy for her to stray and make decisions that were not good for our marriage, our children, and ultimately herself. I realized how stubborn I have been and how reluctant to look at my self first when I should have listened to her criticism and how my behavior was influencing her and our children.