I can go buy some new clothes....

i could ask him to watch the kids so i can do my yard work on one of his days off.

I really stink at all of this and feel like just tell me exactly what to do.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline