It's ok, just don't wear it on your sleeve. It is hard not to take some satisfaction from the consequences of their actions, especially when you are not the source of the consequence.
But being able to talk with her about it, that is what will help you both move past it. Good job Pen.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK