Email her back, tell her what you are doing and where you are going, and tell her you'd love it if she went with you. It would be a great way to start off your year together.
If she comes up with 10 different excuses why she can't change plans now, tell her those are all great reasons, but you'd still love it if she came with you anyway. If she says no, you can feel good about trying and you can go and have yourself a good time.
Corri
Corri. I don’t know if that would work or do I want to even try to get through to her. I shouldn’t do this because there may be a lurker or two around but here’s a cut of her email to me. To this, I wished her a safe happy time. Notice the WAS. The names that are marked out are her female friends. She WAS going to hang with them. Now she has definite plans. I’m sure she has plans with her “friend.”
My little birdie tells me she’s really putting the moves on this guy and talking to him even more. I can’t stop her but I won’t babysit while she does her thing possibly with another guy. She already shows that she’s ready to put herself ahead of the kids by suggesting I spend time with them. I spent more time last week with the kids than she did in nearly the entire month of December. That is not exaggeration. With her being at “work.” It seems as if she’s trying to rub my face in her “plans.” Trying to throw a little mystery in the mix by saying she WAS going to be with people I know. Hell, she’s succeeded. I’m already guessing. LOL!!
Tell me what you think guys.
I do have plans I am sorry that you thought I'd be there. Actually, regardless, I WAS going to be @ xxxxx or xxx or somewhere other than the house. I can't do my usual New Years thing this year and it just doesn't seem right. But now I have definite plans and I will not be home and I just didn't want the kids @ home all by themselves all night long.
