find out why any person other than gay would look at this stuff.
NO ONE here knows that Marmie unless they have experienced it themselves.
That is up to your husband to examine his sexuality.
Do you have to accept that? No.
Does that have to be part of your life? No.
If he is a homosexual then he has some very difficult things to confront.
And so do you.
That is not "coddling" someone. That is getting to a frank and meaningful discussion with someone you care about and may be in a lot of pain and denial.
THAT MAY be the issue. Tragedy changes our lives. It is up to you what to do with it and how you will be changed by it.
The endgame here is for you to come to a healthy conclusion for YOUR life.
If you think who you want to be is to label your husband a homosexual and leave him and you have no regrets about that
Then do it.
Me?
I would want to understand before I react. I would not jump to any conclusions based on ANYONE but a qualified professional to help you come to best decision for you.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
