What's da haps, man?

[ImprovedRomeo]

Sol, from your end no contact is good. There's really nothing more to say to him at this point. You've let him know where you stand (more than once) and that after the D it's over. Once you clarify your position you leave it to the other person to choose what they want and you keep moving forward If something happens you'll figure things out then, if nothing happens well you are already prepared for the it knowing you gave it your best- but it takes two people.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and hope the court matters resolve soon and amicably.

HG- that's ok I think but depending on what you want from him you can also decline once in a while Can you also hang out with other friends on the weekends too? your girlfriends etc? I think you need a couple of different GAL activities and people to do it with. OK what I'm saying is you don't want to jump into another relationship so quickly. Nothing wrong with getting to know someone and later on maybe if things line up then sure but right now you're probably too vulnerable. I know it's hard because you probably like spending time with him but that's my only humble advice.

I think overall you're doing great! Keep up the good work