Well, small world and small town.. Wife was confronted by a parent and wife of a child in my sons TKD class and her husband is a black belt in my wife's TKD class... turns out she asked my wife point blank if the "rumors" are true? Wife asked what rumors and the other mom/wife stated the rumor that my WAW was sleeping with a TKD instructor.. my wife had to come totally clean and told her the whole story including the EA text's and phone calls but also said that she and I are committed to the marriage and are working things out... wife was very very upset.. I didnt overly console her, I simply agreed that she is upset but that is peoples perception as to what has happened and that there are consequences. I also told her I will support her if there are questions about her integrity as long as she is honest and continues to work on the trust.
the Scarlet letter is self inflicted. Is it wrong not to feel sorry for her?
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10