Hit by truck 2 months ago

[habitacker]

I have a meeting with my MC monday and was thinking about doing some x-mas shopping afterwards. One of the things I am not supposed to do is buy her gifts,flowers,love letters,etc. What is anyone's thought on what to do about x-mas gift?
MC also says I should compliment her. Everytime I say you look nice today or, How was your day? it seems to bother her. I know it probably seems fake to her, but MC says it will eventually seem natural to her and I should keep doing it.
Since I broght up my MC, I might have a little problem I need to solve with him. 2 months ago when this all started my wife went to see him once. I now know this was just because I asked her to. The next time I saw him he said that he saw nothing in her that showed she had made up her mind. He saw a very smart woman who had not made any final decisions. This made me feel great.
2 weeks ago was the last time I fell off the wagon. I asked what I did not want to know. She said she wants a divorce. First time she said it bluntly. I changed tactics and said I would not give up and I have to fight for this marriage, so on and so on. I asked what she had told MC. She said she told him plain out she wanted a divorce and she was crying when she said it.
Now. I have taken so much hope in what he told me about what he saw in her, just to find out that I have been lied to by my MC. Maybe he has a reason for this? I am going to have to confront him on this monday.
I actually feel I am getting more from information I am finding on my own anyway. Such as this forum,books,etc. I still do not mind doing all I can but I am hurt by what has happened with MC. I do need to hear his side of the story though.
All of this changing tactics and falling off the wagon stuff happened before I had DB and DR books. I have learned a lot since then.