I might agree with that if he was married to the OW.
And I would not call what GAG is doing as chasing.
She is making choices to spend time with someone she cares very deeply about and actually based on her own beliefs may consider still to be her husband.
Only for her to say and for her to risk her own feelings and life to allow it to happen in HER life.
It is HIS choice what to do with it. And OW.
The only question I put out there for GAG is
If he is doing this to another woman what makes it safe for you to believe he has changed in a way that you might accept him back in your life as a partner?
Alb, that may be your point and I get it.
Good question for GAG...
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
