XH is off his pedestal and I'm moving forward

[Albuquerque]

GAG,

I know you're doing the best you can do and respect the thought and insight you put into your situation. But I probably have a very different opinion on things than most, and realize that. There's something about your situation that just doesn't sit right with me. And what that is is that essentially, you are chasing after somebody else's man. I realize you were married and have a long history, and it certainly seems that your XH wants to remain friends. And I don't see ANYTHING wrong with that. But the fact that he has a girlfriend, and you know this, and you still are flirting with him to steal him away, makes YOU the man stealer in this situation. It makes you the OW. You may be OK with that since it IS a morality judgement, and it is a strange situation. But it's just not something I'm completely comfortable watching without at least saying something. Again, I hold you in very high regard because I realize your actions are not made with malice. And you certainly have every right to continue your interactions with your in-laws since they will always remain, in part, part of your extended family. I sincerely hope that your XH DOES wake up and realize what he's missing out on with you.