Originally Posted By: v1olin
The main barrier was the abrubtness of it all.


I think this is universal all across the board for the LBS. You just never imagine that it will end up the way it does. One goes into M thinking it's a permanent relationship and whenyou see your partner walk away so easily, it does quite a number on you. And that is an understatement.

Originally Posted By: v1olin
Honestly, I think DB kept me from moving on when I should have...


I could see that. Sometimes it's better to just let go instead of trying to fight the inevitable. But .. if we don't try, we never know, right?

[/quote] Do I ever need to detach to the point that I don't care about other men spending time with my kids? I hate that.[/quote]

Those are your children so you, as a father, will always feel a deep protectiveness for them and want the best for them. I think you will always care and be wary of any new man in their life. Papa bear, and all that.


Me: 29
Got a ticket to the D concert