"Do not believe what you hear and less than 50% of what you see."
Can someone tell me what exactly does this mean? Can you give me an example (or two)?
The WAS is very confused and conflicted on the inside even if they don't always show it on the outside. They will often say and do things to convince/remind themselves of the stance they've taken, and will not want to show you any of the conflict they are experiencing. It is harder for them to mask their behaviour and sometimes actions will indicate this ...
This confusion and behaviour is part of what can make you hop on the rollercoaster ... it's why we talk about detaching.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
