I gave her a book called the Walk out Woman about a week ago. Now that I have been on this forum I wish I would not have. She has said nothing about it good or bad. I just wanted her to see that divorce would not fix the problems. I think it would just make more. I do not know if it was the book or my 180, but for the last couple of nights she actually sat on the living room floor with me and the kids for a couple of minutes and watched AFV with us. Usually she goes downstairs and watches her shows or plays on computer.
I read that book also. It is almost an extension of what MWD teaches.
Looks as if your W took a baby-step, so take it as that. Don't "expect" any reactions to books, talks, or anything.I do suggest that you not ask her any questions regarding that book. It will backfire, if you do. In the future, reframe from giving her information on M b/c she will see it as pressure.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
