Thanks again, so much.

I have a friend that does not get along with her XH. She never sees him and they never do stuff together as a family. Many times she says she wishes that they were like me and my XW, in that we all do stuff together.

Let me put the records straight. It's is really not that great to be out with your XW and to see no love in her eyes. She is guarded and not the person I married.
I continue to do it as I am hoping things change.

On Monday we were out my 7 year old daughter was walking holding my hand and her mom's hand. A few times she pulled her mom's hand and mine together to get us to hold hands. Not so good....

I will continue to stay focussed on my kids and receptive to going our with my XW and see what happens.
Lately I have been feeling that it's time for me to meet someone else. This is normal and all part of the process.


Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09