Will the madness never end?????

[lea74]

I received an email today from XH saying that with immediate effect I can no longer email him on the email address I have been using for the past 20 years, but now have to address all emails to:

paul-and-OWathot.........

This is just crazy. I am not going to send emails to my XH about my sons, the only reason I would need to contact him, that are addressed to her as well.

He has been told in court, that OW is not a parent, has no parenting rights or responsibility and all communcaiton should be between us.

I know that some may say that this is just a small thing and that I should get over it. However, there is a principle involved. For all our M, XH controlled me and told me what to do and now he still feels he can. I don’t feel I can move forward if I allow him to continue to control me and tell me how things will happen. I have set a boundary and said that if I cant use that old email address I will send him all communication via postal mail.

They both do really think that they are above the law. He has been told that contact is for him as the parent, yet OW, still continues to text my sons when they are with me. This is an invasion of our privacy and our home and also it is just inappropriate for a 33 year old woman to text two boys 8 and 10, she is not even their stepthing yet!!! I don’t approve of young children having a cell phone and the only reason they have one is so that XH and I can contact them when they are in each other’s care. They still deserve to be children and I don’t even let them text or phone their friends. They have plenty of time for that when they are old enough.