Nobody dismisses how you feel. You have a right to feel the way you do. Likewise, he has a right to feel the way he does. He's not going to understand your disgust or feeling of betrayal right off the bat. He's still dealing with getting caught. It's going to take some time and compassion on both your parts.
"or do anything else that i think is "judgemental." You came on here and said you wanted to get an AIDS test. That's pretty judgemental to me. If that's how you sounded on here, imagine how you might have sounded to him?
Bottom line is that you don't want this to happen again and he'd probably not want to be reminded of you catching him.
So did you ask him why he was looking at that type of porn? Try and detail your conversations with him as much as possible on here. It helps.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
