i did not "read him the riot act" or do anything else that i think is "judgemental." i mentioned talking to our priest because my h and i attend church together, i am not some pious fishwife married to a heathen. in fact, he goes to confession more than i do! plus, we have our home blessed at the beginning of each new year. anyone who is familiar with orthodox christianity will know exactly what i am talking about. i'm sorry if my reaction to what he is doing is upsetting to you guys. but what about how i'm feeling?