Gdub, I am so sorry to hear about the evening.

Sleeping on it sounds like a really good idea. When times are tough and we (spouses) are apart from each other, I swear it makes the brain do gymnastics. I, for one, would find intimacy really challenging after we had been apart. I am not talking about sex, just closeness/connection. If I put myself in her position, I suspect I would be feeling scared. What is your W's LL?

Depending on how things go in the next couple of days, is there any way you two can move up the date on Retrouvaille?


(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."