The main barrier was the abrubtness of it all. For 18 years I have had a very deep sense of love for this woman. I told her I would always love her and I meant it. Honestly, I think DB kept me from moving on when I should have. Do I ever need to detach to the point that I don't care about other men spending time with my kids? I hate that.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final