Oh gutwrenching, I guess your gut was telling you what was going on .
Addiction is so ugly...I am sorry that it is affecting your W, you and your family this way.
I hope that you can separate what is about your marriage, and what is just about her in this situation. A wise teacher talks about "my business, your business, and God's business". Now, more than ever, you need to get really clear on what is what in your life, because your business is going to be more than enough of a challenge right now, and tackling her business and God's business will just undermine you. Be strong and know that we are with you in spirit.
(((hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
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