You know violin, I can relate to your timeline. STBXH and I started our relationship in 92 and married in 2000. Our children are 7 and 4.
I'm sorry I haven't followed your thread, your sitch is has been going on for quite a while. Are there specific barriers that are preventing you from detaching?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.