You said your boyfriend has a desire to give love and affection he was missing to someone. Understandable, but I feel he should give that to himself first and then to someone else.
I think he feels that he has developed a really good relationship with himself. I can see that he has evolved a lot since his separation, just like I have.
I appreciate your perspective though.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
