I also highly recommend the book, "Rebuilding, When Your Relationship Ends." I took the 10-week seminar class and the general thought was to not date for at least a year while you work on yourself. I waited 18 months to begin dating again and I'm glad I did. I found myself first, took back my heart, and now I'm healthy and whole to begin a new relationship. I know not everyone agrees, but I want to offer a different perspective.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10