Of course people have issues, but if you've done your "work" you should be able to spot them sooner than later and get out that relationship! I'm not quite certain what you're trying to say?
What I'm trying to say is that for me, I had to heal myself first. In general, I think that's a pretty good rule. By really liking myself, recognizing my faults and flaws, and continuing to improve myself, I don't attract the people with the sob story and the plethora of issues. They tend to stay away from me.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
