Mystik, I am so glad that CG is posting to you...she really knows what she is talking about and I hope you read her words very carefully. She was the first person who told me the harsh truth in my thread. I hated to hear it but I listened anyway and she is one of the people who truly helped me to move forward as quickly as I have. It does take courage to confront one's issues head on. Good for you! We're cheering you on.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.