feel love thumping at the doors of my heart again

[newmama]

Unfortunately my old thread got suddenly locked so I wasn't able to redirect.

FM- you had so many followers so it is worth posting on FB OR starting a new thread in the newcomers just stating that you moved! Sorry,I don't mean to be pushy, and you know how much I like to write on your thread but you should still get the perspective of your old DB pals,too! Know what I mean?

How did you get to be so smart newmama?? Seriously you are giving me great input here. The answer is -- years!

Well heck, I put in all of those frequent dater miles! Seriously. (just not good at predicting if they will cheat I guess!)

Oh and I understand personally about the difficulty of breaking down walls and building intimacy with friends. Again, I think having a boyfriend will be tough when we leave a marriage where we got to know our spouse really well and were intimate (you know- we developed that until it stopped) and then it's going back to the drawing board with dating. You know?

It's like we LBSs may want to "pick up where we left off" with our exes. The intimacy is the best thing in the world and the beginning stages of dating can be kind of painful when you aren't in bed. Just my experience.

Glad to hear you are going to work on just "going with the Flow!" har har, love to say that, FM!

oh and conflict avoiders aren't bad people, right? Just a bad habit or whathaveyou that is hard to undo!