The talks can be highly overrated. It just isn't the style for some folks/relationships....so don't let that be a barometer for you.

Focus on the behaviors.

What do you know that makes him happy? And like Eric said: what are his complaints?


Piecing or newcomers is fine for you. Piecing is a state of mind/relationship. If you feel you are piecing, stay here. It's a PMA.

dbmod