I still stand by the motto, "You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are." If you are needy or have serious issues, that's what you'll attract. If you are desperate, that's what you'll attract.
I see what you are trying to say, but this is too simplistic. Pretty much, if you ignore the red flags, you are not very wise. People with issues will always have signs and red flags (lol we all have issues but I mean SERIOUS one). So if you (general you) are foolish enough and lonely enough to go for the person with the sob story and slough of issues, I don't feel sorry for you.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
