who are you?

[MrBond]

Didn't say that. I just asked if you two actually "talked" or did you just start reading him the riot act? And I mean really talk.

If you talked to him the way you're coming across now, honestly, if I were your H, I wouldn't listen and vise versa.

So you are saying that you saw him watching porn and so assume he has an affair, so you're getting an AIDs test based on that assumption. Is that correct?

Again, the more details you can give the better.

Look, do you want to save your marriage? If you do, then you're going to have to start listening. If you don't want to save your marriage, then why bother posting on a marriage saving website?