That is so true, Lost. I just want to shake H and tell him, "Look what you are doing to our son."
Thank you, rysmom. How unprofessional of your lawyer to send out D papers without your permission. I'd probably be looking for a new lawyer if the one I hire did that. And yes, it is a horrendous emotional strain.
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