But don't push her to file... let her family put the pressure on her that they already here... you just steer clear...
She's going to have to give up an awful lot to pursue her A and she knows it... Whcih is why she's hesitating...
Now you just have to make it easier for her to come home.
Don't be a doormat, but you don't want to curse and yell either.
Stand up for your self respect, act distant so she has to pursue you.
She's under a lot of stress from her family right? So, let that build up in her... It's a game of chicken between you two right now... Just hold on for a bit more...
Remember OM is likely getting impatient too.
You ant to know how many times my wife ended her affair before she finally gave OM the boot for the last time?
I put the presure on her and then just stood back and waited... OM and her fought and fought.. she got sick of him long before she was ready to file...
And I just watched and kept the pressure on...
Your wife will end it probably several more times and OM will get fed up and give up on her...
He's a long way away and OM don't like to be stuck out in the cold like that... OM is PO'd right now and he will take that out on your wife if you leave them to themselves.. they will fight...
