Blackie I hope you have a good time tonight. I'm sure you will look mighty handsome with your snazzy tie and all.
Listen, I think your wife is still playing games with you. She wants you to pursue her, is what I think. When she says no to something, she might want you to press it and show her that you REALLY want her. It's worth a try to see if this works with her!
I thought of this the other day when you made the sexual comment to her and she acted hard to get in response. I think she wants to turn you down and have you keep trying. This is a thought that turns a lot of women on--to be chased.
Why not try dating her all over again? Something light and fun..shoot pool or go ice skating or whatever. Not going to a movie or something where you are spending time but not TOGETHER. Ask her if she'd consider going on a date with you and go from there.
Have fun tonight and have some cheer for me. We are home sick with the flu. Nothin cheery here.