Well I hate to say it but I am dating a nice girl but she has issues. But then again who doesnt?
And I was honest enough to tell my gf that I was still on the rebound big time. No surprises for her and she understood this completely.
Sadly, dating her does not keep me from thinking about my XW. I even told her that I thought I should not be dating yet but we are good to each other and enjoy each others company.
When I am with her I do not think about my XW at all. It's the days inbetween that get to me.
I know its messed up and I know what I need to do. Just still having a hard time letting go. I feel it may still take some time. I was loving this woman for 23 years and I cant turn that off like a switch. But I am way better almost a year later than the absolute emotional train wreck I was just seven months ago so I am making progress.
Sorry to hijack this otherwise upbeat thread with a downer posting LOL. Ill go back to lurking now.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
