Wife abandoned me...Now What?

[Truegritter]

I don't know how I could prevent that any longer.

Mike you can't prevent her from doing ANYTHING.

You only control you, right?

So if she wants a D, she'll get a D.

Just saying look at it from the POV of what YOU want.

And act accordingly.

The frustration will leave you when you do that.

Because you're not expecting anything except what you choose.

It is tough to understand and it takes time but it is another step in the process of healing yourself.

This isn't about her anymore it's about you.