I hear you TG, and that line of thinking does bring me back to center. Thank you.

Problem is though, I don't think it's even going to matter if I wanna keep pushing through this mess. I'm almost positive my W has had enough of everyone holding back her relationship with the OM...and she's to the point of deciding to throw in her towel and file.

I don't know how I could prevent that any longer.


M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children