Wife abandoned me...Now What?

[Truegritter]

but I've been doing that for over 7 months and we've gotten nowhere

I know this is frustrating when you don't get what you are after.

Something to think about for YOU.

When you took your vows did you say:

"I will love and honor you, all the days of my life, in good times and in bad, for better or worse

BUT

If you get scared and lose your way

If you are so scared you run away

If you don't give me what I want

I won't"

?

THIS is about you Mike. What do you believe? How do you act with honor and integrity?

How you act defines who you are.

So will you let someone compromise who you are?

Will you let someone dictate what YOU believe by THEIR actions or inaction?

You can walk away but make sure you do it because YOU decide it NOT because your W decided it for you.

Otherwise you will let someone else, maybe the next person, affect you the same way?

This is tough stuff Mike. And most people don't have the stomach for the worse in "better or worse"

Frustration is an emotion so don't make a decision with it.