For the record, when I found out about my W's A, I exposed to my MIL and SIL. I thought my MIL would be sympathetic since her H skipped out on her and my W. She told me to let her go and be happy.
She was speaking from experience. Loved you enough to give you some REALLY great advice.
Michelle writes something similar:
Originally Posted By: http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_take_care_of_yourself.htm
push yourself out the door. Remind yourself that there is a world outside of your current uncomfortable situation. It will be good for your soul and your self-esteem.
