Okay, let me put it like this: ANALOGY TIME:

Say you got this wall...and your only goal is to tear this wall completely to the ground.

To do this, you've acquired a number of tools, objects, and methods that you think may be your ticket to bringing this wall down.

You throw rocks, you kick it, hit it, scream at it, hit it with bats and axes...and the wall doesn't budge. It doesn't even dent or chip!

Finally, you use one of your most serious tools...say a good-old sledge hammer. WHACK!...The wall now has a chunk in it!!!

Success?!?....NO!

The wall has a chunk ripped out of it but it's a world away from being completely crumbled to the ground...so you have still not been successful at your goal!

So what do you do now? Try every other tool again that previously failed to make even a dent?

Or continue to use the only thing that gave that damn big wall a run for it's money?


=O)


M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
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