"how would i know?"

Then why are you getting an AIDS test?

"he obviously has a secret life."
No he "obviously" doesn't. It's mind reading. Did you talk to him about it in a non-judgmental way? Did you two talk?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER