Wife abandoned me...Now What?

[MrBond]

"it did cause her to cease all contact with the OM for 3 months...which is more than I can say for anything else that's been attempted through all of this."

But it in the end it didn't work because I think you mentioned they got together recently.

So thinking objectively, why or what factors do you think would make her want to come back to you? Aside from marriage vows, etc. What benefit does she get from going back to you?