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marmie #2107063 11/18/10 09:13 PM
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Okay, some of your posts have come through now, and I see your description of shemale porn. Is it possible that your H is conflicted about his sexual orientation? How do you feel that communication is between you, in general?

I'm sorry that you're in such pain.

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if there is anyone on here that knows anything about the facination with shemales i would like to hear it.
i already said in my first post that i thought our sex life was good, no complaints about frequency from h.
i feel our communication was fine too.


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marmie #2107070 11/18/10 09:28 PM
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Oh I read your first post Marmie,

I was just verifying that.

Simply put a guys fantasy world sometimes doesn't involve his wife, and it is not always a bad thing.



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omg. i think i'm done and will file for d.


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marmie #2107074 11/18/10 09:42 PM
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That's a bit hasty.



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marmie #2107075 11/18/10 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted By: marmie
omg. i think i'm done and will file for d.


You could. It depends: do you love him unconditionally? Does this change everything you knew about your marriage or about what kind of human being he is? What exactly makes it the deal-breaker? (I'm not saying it shouldn't be--but decisions made in haste can end in tears, so take your time and really think through what a divorce would mean for you, and what the thing is that you can't get past.)

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"omg. i think i'm done and will file for d."

Did something happen? I guess it comes down to, do you want a D?


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it proves that i never really knew the man i married and the stuff on that site is so repulsive that it makes my physically ill.
i won't let him touch me now and just now made an appt to get an aids test.


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marmie #2107081 11/18/10 09:50 PM
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Why are you getting an AIDs test? Did he fool around?


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Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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MrBond #2107083 11/18/10 09:54 PM
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how would i know? he obviously has a secret life. this has been a huge wake-up call and i now question everything i ever knew about him.


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