Okay, some of your posts have come through now, and I see your description of shemale porn. Is it possible that your H is conflicted about his sexual orientation? How do you feel that communication is between you, in general?
if there is anyone on here that knows anything about the facination with shemales i would like to hear it. i already said in my first post that i thought our sex life was good, no complaints about frequency from h. i feel our communication was fine too.
You could. It depends: do you love him unconditionally? Does this change everything you knew about your marriage or about what kind of human being he is? What exactly makes it the deal-breaker? (I'm not saying it shouldn't be--but decisions made in haste can end in tears, so take your time and really think through what a divorce would mean for you, and what the thing is that you can't get past.)
it proves that i never really knew the man i married and the stuff on that site is so repulsive that it makes my physically ill. i won't let him touch me now and just now made an appt to get an aids test.