You have a good sex life. Does he want sex more often than you? Do you want it more often than him?
Is this an addiction?
I suppose if it was everyday.
Is it?
This could very well have nothing to do with you at all, hence "fantasy"...something that will never happen.
I like two women kissing. I don't want one of those women to be my wife. And I do not want to be involved. I hope you do not need me to get more graphic than that. But I am trying to point out that sometimes a guys fantasy has nothing to do his wife lacking sexually.
If I thought my fantasy would be upset my wife, I wouldn't tell her.
I am also not trying to incorporate it into our sex life.
Is your husband trying to?
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