Yes. I think the LD spouse/partner often gets the "I just like sex" answer and I think that feels superficial. Frankly I think there are men and women whom that is true for-it is more superficial. However, I maintain, if it was just about 'getting off' we could handle that on our own.
Men, especially, can be reluctant to tell you what sex means to them emotionally, plus, let's face it, many of them are just clumsy communicators (sorry guys). They don't necessarily know what they feel. They just feel good, but I do think for most (not all) decent men, it is way more than just physical.
We are still stuck/frozen but we are communicating and she IS trying. I'm just tired of bringing it up.
