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My posts or reply's never show up. Help. Please.


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There is a bit of a delay lately.



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when folks are desperate for help, the delay makes it worse .. could it be that the large threads aren't getting locked? that was the reason for the performance problems when they had to shut it down for maintenance about a month ago.

i have noticed that activity has gone up so .. it's really sad that people have to come here for help. frown

i'm not a vet so i don't have much to offer .. except to say .. hang in there.

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The guys in the trenches get more suport from the guys next to them. : ) The same guys living with the pain and ups and downs and being able to share similar experiences.

Never suggest you don't have much to offer.

Vets have ideas what worked for them, and a game plan, but a distance from the pain.



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New members are being "fully moderated" for what seems to me to be an absurdly long time. Your posts don't show up until a moderator gets around to approving them.

Dumped, it's not the large threads. In fact I would say that's a lot less of a problem since a software update some time ago, like years. Anything else I might say wouldn't be helpful....


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i am exhibit "a."

and it sux.


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Sorry to hear that marmie. frown


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thank you, i appreciate it.


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Hi...I have noticed this myself and have escalated this question.

It is not personal, and I apologize for the frustration it may cause.


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during the hours i spend last night reading and waiting for my posts to show up, some of the threads were confusing and made no sense. like a continuity was missing.


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