In my case, that is not the reaction I got from my in-laws. They have been helping me fight this affair every step of the way for the last several months.
You are correct...it is something she's going to have to figure out on her own, and no, she does not live with me. She moved out at the beginning of our situation several months ago and our interaction with each other during that time has been pretty darn rare.
For myself, I've gotten into fantastic shape...same weight but more strength than when I was 19. I've continued counseling on my own, read everything I could to learn more about relationships/marriage, focused on maintaining/improving our home, taken care of our puppy, gone out and spent time with friends and family, become a better uncle to my nephew and started learning how to care for a baby by doing so, and regained my self confidence, strength, and respect by living my life the best that I could.
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children
