Wife abandoned me...Now What?

[MrBond]

Mike,

"She thinks that a divorce will set her free to be happy again...and nothing has been able to convince her otherwise."

You are right. YOU can't convince her. She has to be the one to come to that realization on her own. What have you been doing for yourself?

Drop the R talk and live your life so you start gaining your self-esteem and confidence back. It took me awhile, but it's the one thing you definitely need to do.

I'm assuming she's still living at home?